You create Domains for the big areas of your shared life — household, finances, kids, whatever matters. Inside each Domain, you add Roles and agree on who handles what. The stuff that normally lives in one person's head gets written down once and stays visible to both of you.

A regular moment to review your Trackers, update Projects, and raise anything that's on your mind. You choose the rhythm. It's not a performance review. It's a practical conversation with a bit of structure.

When something feels off, either of you can raise a Tension. No waiting for the right moment. And when you want to change how you share Responsibilities, you raise a Proposal and decide together. The point isn't to monitor each other. It's to stop one person from holding everything in their head.